š¬ today we will talk about WANTING MORE AND MORE āØš 3 - the thrill wears off and you want some more, always. Itās never good enough after you achieve something, you want to go to the next step. Itās normal, natural, itās natural selectionā¦ however, remember: Happiness doesnāt come only at the end. Happiness is always there;
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In New Yearās Eve we wish to have only the basics: Health, money and love. These ābasicā is actually a very big deluxe package that not many has the privilege of obtaining. For people who actually have them all, it becomes obsolete very quickly. Our desires are more complex than that.
If weāre healthy and have no fever, we want more: A big muscly body or we want to be extremely skinny. What about money? Itās not good enough having the opportunity to pay the rent, transportation, food, Netflix, a couple trips per year. We want the big ocean view from our bedroom window and a one-month stay in a fancy spa. What about love? Wellā¦ Having someone to laugh about life, split a pizza, have some sex once in a while is not enough. We want the LUST! We want to have savage sex on da daily basis, we want to be in love 24/7, we want gifts and unexpected love posts on Instagram from our loved one frequently.
Thatās what happens when we spend all day scrolling through Social Media. We forget how to be simply happy in a more realistic way. We should practice exercise to be healthy and like our body the way it is and not to get ready to go on a runway. Having money is a blessing and we have to enjoy having it. If you have enough to feel safe, you can make that trip, try that new restaurant and not keep saving and saving. If youāre out of money, try to find entertainment in a creative and cheap way; sometimes a little bit of creativity is needed.
And loveā¦ If you have a partner, great! If you donāt have a partner, great as well! Having a partner constantly doesnāt mean that youāre actually happy. You can find happiness in being single, happiness in having sporadic romances, happiness in just being you, with no labels. Thereās no bigger love than loving yourself.
It is important to find within yourself the thing that makes you move, the thing that keeps you going. However, when you find it, remember that youāre human and you canāt demand too much from you. Youāre doing your best with the resources you were given. Life is not a reality show that you have to struggle to show others how much youāre worth and that youāre gonna win this game! No! No! Donāt be a victim of this mentality!
If the stakes are too high, lower them. If youāre not happy at work, find another one! If itās hard to find another one, make a new game up! Do whatever it takes for you to be happy. And remember you ARE happy while youāre doing this. You ARE happy while youāre on your way.
Happiness doesnāt come only at the end. Happiness is always there; you canāt even feel it. You actually know youāre happy when you donāt feel it. Those strong feelings that shake our hearts is not happiness. It can be passion, enthusiasm, nostalgia, but not happiness. Happiness is soothing. You can find it and let it go simply by not noticing it was there already. Soā¦ Be careful with your desiresā¦
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