In the Inspirational Class ๐ฌ today we will talk about loving without conditions โจ๐ since ancient time they tell us that you have to cling and hold on to the one you love forever. We start the relationship with someone because we admire them. And then after a while we want them to change. Why? Why change?
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Can you love yourself? If you judge yourself, if you condemn yourself, how can you love someone else? Unconditional love exists. You love because of the pleasure of loving someone. The happiness of loving someone. You donโt wait for something back. If you wait for something back youโre not loving unconditionally anymore. If you get jealous, youโre not loving unconditionally anymore.
Weโre not split. Weโre not divided, weโre not separated from each other, weโre all one and thatโs why we trust and respect each other. Itโs not easy to have unconditionally love, we have to practice. To train and live experiences. Weโre constantly training by media to be jealous, to be angry, to make a scene, to make a scene how offended we are. And all of this takes away the possibility of unconditional love.
Remember:
11 - VERY STRONGLY CONDITIONED HABITUAL IDENTIFICATION
THIS IS HOW WEโVE LIVED OUR LIVES
A continued habitual identification coming from different sources, not only television.
Unconditional love doesnโt mean you have to get married and be with this person for the rest of your life. You can love them now, in the moment. Think about now. Is it working now? Perfect. Later on you discover that living together doesnโt work out. You can live separated. But still together. Unconditional love doesnโt mean you have to be suffering together. Having pain because I love you.
Unconditional love is when someone is saying that they are leaving, you reply: what a pity! Youโre happy, youโre fun, itโs so good to be together, but if you want to go, go. I want you to be happy. Find someone who completes you. Itโs hard I know. Accepting is hard. But it can be your source of freedom.
6 - YOU CAN DECIDE WHICH FEELING YOU ENGAGE WITH
8 - YOU CAN INFLUENCE WHICH MODULES WIN OR LOSE
9 - CHOOSE NOT TO BE GUIDED BY THOUGHTS THAT ARE NOT HELPFUL
We watch soap opera, movies. Books, since ancient time they tell us that you have to cling and hold on to the one you love forever. We start the relationship with someone because we admire them. And then after a while we want them to change. Why? Why change? Werenโt you interested because that person had certain traits? Now youโre afraid of losing them and want them to change their traits because they canโt be loved by someone else? It only means that you donโt trust. Trust in their love. And if youโre capable of loving and respecting yourself, youโre capable of loving and respecting someone else, or even animals, a little dog. And after all, the thing that you actually love, is life.
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